Thank you my readers for your willingness to be inspired. We never know where our answers might lie. Our most important insights may come from a sentence in a book. I hope this is true for you.
Creating this book is the answer to a dream for me. I have wanted to be a writer since I was thirteen, but in those early days I had nothing to say. After I wrote THE COURAGE TO GRIEVE and then YOU DON’T HAVE TO SUFFER, I thought I was done writing books.
Still I never stopped wanting to inspire others with ideas about living well. It has always disturbed me that there is no training to be a human being, no lessons in coping with trauma, illness, loss and tragedy. Ours is a world filled with people learning in hit or miss ways how to confront the inevitable troubles and sorrows in life or how to have satisfying lives and successful relationships.
Unfortunately there is also no training for the biggest jobs most of us take on – like being a parent or a spouse. It’s startling that we have so little assistance or support for dealing with the things that matter most to us in life. Seeing that we really don’t have any “curriculum” other than our own trial and error ways for coping with our emotional lives led me to write all of my books and now these articles.
Beginning my newsletter project, I thought or hoped to write maybe fifteen articles at most. Instead I have found an endless stream of inspiration, the sharing of which has been one of the greatest joys in my life. This book came as a surprise to me. My hope is that it is valuable for you. I am living Goethe’s words: “Whatever you can do, or dream you can, begin it. Boldness has genius, power and magic in it.” May those words encourage you too in whatever are your endeavors.
This is a collection of gems! Judy has a way of getting to the heart of real issues efficiently and, yet, with depth. You could open the book randomly to any one of the 102 brief chapters and get a boost of inspiration or a new way of looking at a common human issue. Informed by the wisdom of her years of experience as a writer, speaker and therapist, Judy offers readers skillful guidance without giving advice. This is the perfect Mother’s Day…and Father’s Day gift!
An Inspiration in itself I love this newest book of Ms Tatelbaum’s. I remember her first book, “The Courage to Grieve” and how it helped me years ago, and subsequently with my clients. As a family therapist, I am always on the look-out for books to recommend that address various aspects of living and over-coming obstacles that keep them from having a life well lived. This compilation of wisdom and acceptance not only of ourselves, but others, is an inspiration in itself. Great as a gift, or for me, as a bedside…