This is not your typical self – help book. Although the spirit of the author’s work is uplifting and respectable, her messages are unexpected, entertaining and fierce! Are you a wounded warrior on the front line of life who is shy, to the point that you allow other people to run all over you? Are you so engaged in people pleasing that you neglect your own well – being? Or, maybe you’re an expert in self – sabotaging behavior that dishonor’s you and keeps you lying prostrate on the battle field. Whether you’re one or all three of this “adversarial trinity,” it is time that you stop ambushing yourself by thinking that you are unworthy and that somehow – something, or some other earthly being, is more powerful than you. This book has been written in a no-nonsense, simple format. The author’s intent is to reach you where you are and help you increase your self – esteem and stand in your own strength. The ultimate goal is to inspire you to embrace your authentic self and to recognize your worth. At some point, you laid down your sword of courage and your shield of resilience – it’s time to pick them back up! Learn how to use your shyness in your favor. Learn how to treat the disease to please. Learn how to stop making your ally an enemy. Let’s meet inside the pages! It’s time to wage war on the bullies that keep making you cry “Uncle.”