The Ultimate Guide on How to Stop Caring About What Other People Think of You Are you tired of being a pushover? Don’t you wish you can take a more proactive role in chartering the course of your own life? If you answered in the affirmative to either of the questions above, then this book is for you. Being overly mindful of what others might think of you poses adverse effects on the way you live your life. When you find it difficult to act or say things on your own without first taking into consideration possible hostile reactions from other people, you are in effect limiting your chances for growth, maturity, and independence. This book provides a holistic approach in helping you overcome the fears, insecurities, and self-doubts – verily the same things that prevent you from achieving your fullest potentials. It provides a detailed discussion of the possible causes of the problem, what its common manifestations are, as well as what you can do to reclaim your dignity and self-respect. Know that in the end, the ultimate measure of your worth as an individual does not rest on the amount of praise and validation you earn from other people, but on the degree of love and respect that you hold for yourself. The topics in this book include the following: Understanding the Human Psyche: Why You Long for Attention and Approval Is it normal to seek validation and acceptance from other people? This chapter provides a context to the behavioral tendencies of some people to seek for validation and approval from other people, in some instances even at the risk of sacrificing their own sense of personal happiness. How Being a Pushover Affects the Way You Live Your Life Although there is clearly no virtue in being a pushover, many people still end up becoming one, and for a number of reasons. Among these are unresolved personal issues, fear of offending others or inciting disagreements, fear of being chastised by others, as well as fear of assuming responsibility or liability for their individual actions. A Life Reinvented: Taking Concrete Steps to Claim Back Your Dignity and Self-RespectLife This chapter provides a number of useful strategies designed to help you kick-start your journey toward independence and freedom – a life that is dignified and reflective of the respect you accord yourself. Taking Full Control of Your Personal and Social EncountersLife Contrary to the notion that you are helpless when it comes to your personal and social relations, you actually have the power to take full control of your social environment. This chapter lists down ways that you can subscribe to in order to foster an environment that inspires positivity and growth, not negativity. Sustaining Your Newfound Sense of Confidence and Positivity Over the Long Term Your decision to not give a f**k about what others think of you is a conscious and deliberate lifestyle choice that you need to live by over the long term. This chapter provides essential pointers on how you can sustainably sport this mindset and effectively integrate it in your own day-to-day affairs.
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We Don’t Think You’re Racist!: Soothing Affirmations from People of Color
Do you fear being called racist more than anything?
Do you also fear actual self-improvement?
This helpful book contains soothing affirmations alongside smiling faces from people of color. Relax as they massage your guilt and fill you with undue confidence. Remember: You don’t have to be an ally as long as you feel like one.
How Successful People Think: Change Your Thinking, Change Your Life
Gather successful people from all walks of life-what would they have in common? The way they think! Now you can think as they do and revolutionize your work and life!
A Wall Street Journal bestseller, HOW SUCCESSFUL PEOPLE THINK is the perfect, compact read for today’s fast-paced world. America’s leadership expert John C. Maxwell will teach you how to be more creative and when to question popular thinking. You’ll learn how to capture the big picture while focusing your thinking. You’ll find out how to tap into your creative potential, develop shared ideas, and derive lessons from the past to better understand the future. With these eleven keys to more effective thinking, you’ll clearly see the path to personal success.
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I Think, I Am!: Teaching Kids the Power of Affirmations
“Your thoughts create your life!” This is the message that Louise Hay has been teaching people throughout the world for more than 27 years. Now, children can learn and understand the powerful idea that they have control over their thoughts and words, and in turn, what happens in their life.
Within the pages of I Think, I Am! kids will find out the difference between negative thoughts and positive affirmations. Fun illustrations and simple text demonstrate how to make the change from negative thoughts and words to those that are positive. The happiness and confidence that come from this ability is something children will carry with them their entire lives!
Skepticism 101: How to Think like a Scientist
Despite our best efforts, we’re all vulnerable to believing things without using logic or having proper evidence-and it doesn’t matter how educated or well read we are.
But there is a method for avoiding such pitfalls of human nature, and it’s called skepticism. By using rational inquiry and seeing subjects from a scientific perspective, we can approach even the most sensitive claims with clear eyes to ultimately arrive at the truth.
During 18 lectures that will surprise, challenge, and entertain you, you will learn how to think, not just what to think-and you’ll come to understand why extraordinary claims require extraordinary evidence.
You’ll discover how skepticism can help differentiate between real science and pseudoscience, as well as between “scientific” history and pseudohistory-distinctions that have serious educational and political implications.
Fascinating case studies illustrate how you can apply the methods of skepticism to detect specious claims and faulty logic in any scenario you encounter such as:
The methodology employed by Holocaust deniersArguments made by proponents of creationismThe biology of near-death experiences and the sensed-presence effectPsychic abilities and other “paranormal” phenomena.
As you learn how our brains work to form beliefs, you’ll examine the classic fallacies of thought that lead us to experience mistakes in thinking and to form bad arguments in favor of our beliefs.
Is there a God? Is there life after death? Is there a basis for morality without God? Skepticism 101 doesn’t shy away from controversial questions, nor does it give final answers. What it offers are methods and hard evidence for rationally evaluating various claims and positions, and an opportunity to understand why you believe what you believe.
“Do you think it will rain today?”: Quotes from La Selva Biological Station, Costa Rica
There is a place in Costa Rica where people from all over the world work to advance our scientific knowledge. This place, the La Selva Biological Station, is known around the world for its scientific productivity and fantastic rainforest. However, this is also a place where occasionally you will hear things like… “What kind of soup is it?” – “Chlorophyll.” “I’m pregnant!…with a botfly.” “Something behind Casa 4 smelled like a dead animal.” – “Oh, that was probably our field clothes.” “…and this part of it is inedible.” – “Oh, I think I ate that already.” “Your project just ate my project!” Come in for a behind-the-scenes, always hilarious, sometimes gross, and occasionally even inspiring journey into the lives of field biologists in the tropical rainforest. Carissa Ganong’s collection of quotes (hundreds of them over the last few years) will give you an insight into the lives of thousands of students, researchers and visitors to this most wonderful place on Earth.
This Book Will Make You Think: Philosophical Quotes and What They Mean
Succinctly distills each of the great philosophers’ best-known theories through their most famous quotes—from Aristotle to Wittgenstein
We may have heard of Socrates, Plato, Descartes, and Nietzsche, but what did they believe? What were their famous aphorisms? This book explains as simply as possible the ideas behind the world’s most highly regarded philosophers, examining their core beliefs and presenting choice quotes that succinctly distill their most famous theories. Written in an accessible and informative style, it will help readers get to grips with the complex concepts of philosophy through the ages, and help match the theories to the names.
The Gifts of Imperfection: Let Go of Who You Think You’re Supposed to Be and Embrace Who You Are
In The Gifts of Imperfection, Brené Brown, a leading expert on shame, authenticity, and belonging, shares 10 guideposts on the power of Wholehearted Living – a way of engaging with the world from a place of worthiness. Each day we face a barrage of images and messages from society and the media telling us who, what, and how we should be. We are led to believe that if we could only look perfect and lead perfect lives, we’d no longer feel inadequate. So most of us perform, please, and perfect, all the while thinking, “What if I can’t keep all of these balls in the air? Why isn’t everyone else working harder and living up to my expectations? What will people think if I fail or give up? When can I stop proving myself?”
In The Gifts of Imperfection, Brené Brown, Ph.D., a leading expert on shame, authenticity and belonging, shares what she’s learned from a decade of research on the power of Wholehearted Living – a way of engaging with the world from a place of worthiness.
In her 10 guideposts, Brown engages our minds, hearts, and spirits as she explores how we can cultivate the courage, compassion, and connection to wake up in the morning and think, “No matter what gets done and how much is left undone, I am enough,” and to go to bed at night thinking, “Yes, I am sometimes afraid, but I am also brave. And, yes, I am imperfect and vulnerable, but that doesn’t change the truth that I am worthy of love and belonging.”
“Dance First. Think Later”: 618 Rules to Live By
Timeless in their wisdom, thought-provoking in their message, surprising in their truth and memorable in their originality, the right words can give direction, inspiration, and sometimes a tangible boost onto the right path. For example, Steve Jobs once read “Stay hungry Stay foolish” on the back cover of The Whole Earth Catalog, and those four words came to guide his life.
Created by Kathryn and Ross Petras, connoisseurs of quotes, whose books and calendars have over 56 million copies in print, “Dance First. Think Later.” is a collection of the greatest life wisdom from an unexpected group of speakers, doers, and thinkers. There are 618 rules to live by―funny, sly, declarative, thoughtful, offhanded, clever, and always profound:
“Watch with glittering eyes the whole world around you, because the greatest secrets are always hidden in the most unlikely places.” ―Roald Dahl
“If everything is under control, you are going too slow.” ―Mario Andretti
“Never make a credit decision on a beach.”―Victor J. Boschini
“Dance first. Think later. It’s the natural order.”―Samuel Beckett
“The only time to eat diet food is while waiting for the steak to cook.” ―Julia Child
“What you spend years building may be destroyed overnight; build it anyway.” ―Mother Teresa
And: “Be yourself. Everyone else is already taken.”―Oscar Wilde